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Busy, lonely and looking for Jesus

I felt so far away from God. I was spending time in my Bible, praising God, petitioning for those I know who are hurting and spending my free time reading Girls with Swords, by Lisa Bevere. I was getting it done at work and finding time for my family. Why did I feel so far from God?

I know that the distance between God and I came from me. I moved, He didn’t. When I really took time to reflect on this distance, I could see that I was doing just enough to be able to check Bible time off my list. Quiet time with God, I gave it a full 30 seconds so I could cross it off my list.

I was making lists to make sure everything got done. The lists were helpful at work because the point there is to get the task done. But my time with God should not be about just getting it done.

That’s what it had become though, I was doing the mechanics of what I need to be closer to holy, but completely missing out on the delight that comes from really studying His word. Bible time and quiet time with God became tasks to cross off the list.

I can tell you that I have to fight finding my worth in my accomplishments. I am very goal oriented, and like to make lists to see how much I get done in any given month. Is this the purpose God has ordained for me?

Consider Mary and Martha and the choices they made when Jesus came to their home. (Luke 10:38-42) Mary was enthralled by Jesus and the things He had to say, sitting at His feet, basking in His holiness. Martha was distracted by all that needed to be done, perhaps checking tasks off her to-do list before she felt she could relax and hear the words of Jesus. She was allowing her tasks to keep her from experiencing the holiness of Jesus.

The irony is, Martha was in the presence of Jesus, but her heart was not with Him.

Ugh! It turns out that I am going through a season of distractions instead of holiness. My idol of accomplishing is keeping me from the quiet time I crave with Jesus. And it happens because I let the world distract me, even when that distraction is ministry. Sometimes, even when I am in the presence of Jesus, my heart is not with Him.

I cannot tell you how much pain this brings me. The greatest desire of my heart is to be with Jesus, and yet I find myself lonely, longing for Him because I allowed my ministry tasks to distract me.

When we look at what Martha was doing, it really isn’t bad. She welcomes Jesus, she serves Jesus, she wants to be with Him – at His feet, immersing herself in His holiness. But she allows the tasks of her ministry to be more important than time with Jesus.

Have you ever been there? (Please tell me I am not the only one who struggles with this!) Have you been doing all the right things in your ministry only to find yourself lonely and distracted? Are you finding short term satisfaction in crossing the tasks off your list but losing the long-term joy of being with Jesus?

“In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” Proverbs 16:9

If you, like me, sometimes find yourself distracted or weary by the tasks you are doing to further His kingdom, there is hope my friends. There is freedom in completely trusting Jesus and letting go of our tasks, He wants you to find joy in your ministry to further His kingdom. Bask in the sovereignty of sitting at Jesus feet, delighting in His holiness because His timing is always perfect.

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Nita Wilkinson
Nita Wilkinson
13 oct 2019

Leftovers, yes! I was just telling a friend today I am trying to give Him my first fruits every day. Too often I’m giving the leftovers too.

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I do this too. I even put off my time with Jesus so I can get my list done because I can't focus. Then I don't give Him my best, but my leftovers. I don't want to be Jesus' leftover and I'm sure He doesn't want to be mine. So I am going to challenge myself to take that extra time to be in His Holy presence first. And then dwell with Him.

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Thursa Porter
Thursa Porter
01 oct 2019

The busy life gets me too at times, but then I remember the outlook of people I met in Alabama. For the housework and other details of life if it doesn't get done today there is always tomorrow. Always spend quality time with Jesus.

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